this has been a really adventurous few days..we have slept and prayed on it and we have decided to give the puppy back to the breeder. She is insisting on showing and will not get over the fact that we want to neuter him, i have been called a liar and she has pretty much ruined my puppy experience. I am supposed to be happy and im not, she keeps telling me that she wants to see him at 6 months and to not neuter him until her is a year which we would never wait that long. All she cares about it showing and studding her dogs out..i told her that him having a good home should be the most important thing but she just seems to blow it off and only cares about future litters she could have with him. I should have known from my gut instinct that she was crazy and should have ran away from the beginning. I love him dearly, but i have let her ruin it for me..and i would rather wait for a normal breeder who can give me a puppy that will not threaten me about showing him...now if i could just crawl in a hole for a few days, that would be great...all i can say is that it is in gods hands now and its for the best